If stopping is prohibited because it can show the emptiness of existence, then it is logical and legitimate to engage in the pursuit of happiness. But it is also defensivo.Defensivo, because it is like looking for pirate treasure when we grief in childhood. Well for a while, but futile, distracting and frustrating if it continues in the tiempo.La happiness does not exist as a permanent state is a utopia. And the word has become fashionable among women, with serious consequences. Because the pursuit of happiness set goals so high that we have no alternative but to frustrate the camino.Una thing to fight for equal opportunities for men present at the task of raising children, respect for the couple, dignity through a hole in our lives. Quite another to discover that we want to be happy. No one can be happy, you can be happy woman veces.Una query. I wonder what has led her to seek help. He says he wants to be happy. I say he was wrong, they go to church and ask for a miracle that I do not know. I replied that his friends if they are happy, that she sees active, full of projects with partners that work. She feels different. Life seems routine and tiresome. She is depressed and it asks for is esperanza.El language is very important, because hope seems possible. Not as a permanent state, but at least as common state. Hope talk to feel powerful or loved or supported or all of the above. Is achievable, step by step. But who says he wants to be happy is so far from becoming one, only to dip deeper into the blackness of the vida.Quien want to be happy says he wants to eliminate the pain, loneliness, uncertainty. And life is. That ... more moments of joy, pride in achievements, strife and lack of accountability, challenges, intimacy and love. And at times it appears the feeling that we are happy. And because we know that hard, we stay quiet enjoying the exquisite welfare state must be heaven perdido.La happiness attitude overlooks is that, the stillness. Nothing moves, so that nothing changes. We arrived a gift, or build a moment, and we want to stay there as long as possible. The pursuit of happiness as a defense is an almost frantic, where what is sought is to escape the pain rather than enjoy. So it is as good an antidote for women who have not asked the meaning of their lives, not the strong sense. The meaning of my time, this time in my life. When we define meaning, the frenzy ends because things are organized around something, because we can evaluate how we go. That same woman and left my office and wrote me a mail telling me: "I'm not happy. I am happy at times, other moments are very hard for me. But every day is a day to know where I ". That woman and knows he can not find pirate treasure ships.
(Article copied mercury NOW Magazine)
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